It will come as no surprise to learn that when people fall in love they lose friends. When you’re in an exciting new relationship it’s hard to think of anybody but that special someone, but do you know exactly what price you pay when you fall head over heels?
A study from Oxford University has found that a person’s core group of friends, which numbers about five people, drops by two as a new lover comes to dominate daily life. A core friendship group includes people you see at least once a week and people you go to in moments of crisis.
When a new romantic engagement was started. The results showed that love can lead to your support network shrinking, with typically one family member and one friend being pushed out to accommodate the new lover.
“People who are in romantic relationships- instead of having the typical five [individuals] on average, they only have four in that circle, And bearing in mind that one of those is the new person that’s come into your life, it means you’ve had to give up two others.”
So, when you find the love of your life, remember not to neglect your friends. (via BBC)
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