What makes you happy? It’s hardest question for me, I simply don’t know what will make me happiest person? I just imagine to be happy, I wish to stay happier, Always.
People associate many things with happiness. Is it fabulous fame? Fortune? Friends? or Family or anything other? We have many needs in life, will fulfillment of those make you happy? Sometimes you stay with lots of people around you throughout the day but feel lonely from inside. Will being lonely make your face unhappy?
What actually is happiness? Its a pleasure, positive emotions. How you make it depends on you, nobody gonna make you happy.
The next time you are deciding between ice cream and cake, buying a car or taking a trip to Europe, accepting a new job or keeping your old one, you should remember two things: First, your decision is rooted in the desire to become happy — or at least happier than you are now. Second, there’s a good chance the decision you make will be wrong. [-CNN Health.]
You are born to live your days, situations are lessons to learn, to find a solution and to live better than before. No matter how good or bad your situations are, those are destined to happen. Certain situations in our life are meant to happen; we sometimes call it as our Fate. If it’s for good we are lucky and if it’s bad we are still lucky that we’ve learned a lesson. Only thing to consider is if the same “bad” situation happens again, that’s your mistake.
Everybody are different, the thing which make you happy may not make me the same. My wish can be different from that of yours. That’s why finding what you wish to have is the first step of happiness. Fulfillment of your goals will make you happy. Do not let negative things to come in your mind. Once they enter inside you, they will later act like the devil. We all know, happiness and sadness are two different parts of a coin. Having self pity when something goes wrong is another factor that increases unhappiness. We need to find the solution, not having pity on it.
Take some time from you busy life to spend in some beautiful place; That time is the best opportunity to open the happiness. Happiness with the nature is quite refreshing too. Make the day to day situation happy, at workplace or classroom or in different places but also be serious when require, it will make you a social human being.
Health is another important fact which either make you happy or sad. Being underweight or overweight may destroy your good mood. Have good food, manage time for exercise & take rest.
Running from the problems is never a solution. If you don’t face it, it can bring more unhappy situation later. The world is going cruel, selfishness is destroying the relation among peoples. The people are making others unhappy for their happiness. Be Careful and enjoy each steps. Don’t only think of your happiness, try to add smile to others face too. It will make your life worth living.
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